Style of the Day…”Lady in black” by Amilli Daviau

Style of the Day…”Lady in black” by Amilli Daviau

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Holiday Spirit....

I spent My day decorating My wonderful little abode for the festive season quickly approaching. Tree is up, lit and decorated. Gotta love Florida and fake trees I tell ya! Plus, there is always a wonder in going through the ornaments and remembering one’s childhood – hung up next to the black gladss bulbs and Maleficent ornaments of course!

No shopping was had today and that makes Me a little sad. I should be out every day spending your hard earned money on that which pleases Me. So get off that lazy assed rump of yours and start sending all that money to Me! What the hell are you going to use it on anyway? you know I can spend it better and will enjoy it infinitely more.

How do you get it to Me? Well now little ATM, there are plenty of ways.

When this button right here ^ says “Call Me Now” it means I’m taking calls on TalkSugar and will either ignore you for My own amusement or else titillate, tantalize and otherwise destroy you.

If that button says “Unavailable” fret not little slaveling, for you can still click on it and purchase items from My SugarShop. A recording, a story I wrote and narrated for your pleasure and four different photo sets all for you to purchase and worship Me by.

Then there is always emailing Me to find out directly how you can send Me cash. I prefer Green Dot for such things as they allow you and I both the security and confidentiality without having to use pesky credit cards. you would go and purchase Me a Money Pak (the higher the amount, the better) and email Me the code that it includes. I would then use that code to load My own person card with the funds you have sent to Me and done! I’d be off spending your cash in an instant and it’s so painless….for Me at least!

Those are My preferred methods….which reminds Me…

tomlin, I know you’ll read this….your pay day is coming up very soon. I would hate for you to have to pay late fees! (Note: That is mocked sarcasm, of course!)

I was informed today that someone wants to fall asleep with their head between My thighs. Though I am not whole heartedly certain that this would be comfortable for Me, the idea is certainly intriguing….

With that thought, I’ll say adieu for the evening My flock…

Till later…

~E

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Happy Thanksgiving!

 

Happy Thanksgiving to all of you!

 

Tomorrow, I am making use of the American so called Black Friday. I’m going to get two dresses from House of Bias and some other lovely thing, and since the dollar is so weak + the sale is on, it’s going to feel so good. And I’ve got something very blasphemous ordered yesterday.

Essays are getting written and I don’t really have the attention span to write on two blogs in the same time.

But I would like to make a quick note of a couple of awesome experiences that I’ve had lately:

A very rewarding beginners bondage workshop with London’s own Esinem. A full day of ropetalk and tying. What not to like is there, really?!

Esinem works from the codex of ‘tie people, not parcels’. That means that it is the interaction with the involved that matters, actions and reactions. Tying people, not on armlenghts distance but being close. Expressing, with rope, the connection. Not talking about Two Knotty Boys here, but the oh so wonderful ways of connecting with ropebunny.

So, while he was learning us single and double column ties, he also spoke and showed us ways to keep the connection, keep it flowing and basically, keeping it hot and exciting. There was tricks there that suddenly fell into place, but at some points I also fell flat. Because suddenly a two column tie seemed like the toughest thing in the whole world. I react in the same way when going to a dance class. I concentrate so much on following the steps that I can’t do it at all. Very frustrating.

But as the day went on and more and more jute fluff flew around in the room I relaxed. A very nice relaxed lunch was topped with some videos with the work of Osada Steve, but also some of the work that Esinem himself has done. Here is an example of what I see is a very strong performance, using bondage in a provocative,political, thoughtful, creative and downright amazing way.

Anyhow, after some well deserved lunch we continued, and in the end of the day there was even some time to try out a chest-harness. Before that I decided to do some self-bondage and it became something really nice that I know enjoy a lot as an activity. In regards to the chest-harness I must admit that I only came halfway, but that halfway through a chestharness gave me more thoughts and insights that any other has done so far.

I can recommend the course, and if you feel that a beginners course is a bit to simple for you ( I would love to do the same again so I could frame everything better and practice with more supervision!) there is alos a intermediate course and a advanced.  It’s well worth the money, Esinem teaches very well, give you tips, insights, inspiration, and you will have a lot of fun.

A couple of days later I attended a peer-rope workshop. Which was also amazing. A sunday afternoon and evening and the hours flew by all to fast. Watched some wonderful ropework being done, including a lot of suspensions.  Did again some self-bondage, got some help with that, then had a really beautiful spiderharness done, and in the end having very fun with an amazing woman. We hid a bit, found a calm space with dimmed lightning and sat down on the floor. And this is where I keep coming back to. Those 20, 30 minutes with her. Because afterwards, my legs were shaking, I was giggly and calm in the same time. And I had been the one doing the tying. Not since this summer I had felt anything like it (yes, I miss Korrosion) and it made me love the event even more. So, if you are in London, like rope, not busy on a sunday,  check if the peer-rope is happening and go.

Last, but certainly not least. A new shining star on the club sky in London. Crimson is so fucking good. With a focus on the playspace, they must be the most well-equiped playclub in th U.K with at least two suspensionframes, numerous crosses, spankingbenches, a spitroast, bondagebed, medical play area, etc, etc. There is always space to play, but still very easy to be social and feel relaxed. All in all, it feels like a very, very big houseparty that is so kinky that it would make your jaw drop. Next one will be in february and I will be there.

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Underwear obsession

Just when I feel jaded about the blogosphere, I discovered a new blog InvisibleGaijin that mixes wicked satire and faux news with a focus on men’s fashion. Swoon.

The above is from InvisibleGaijin’s story about Japanese underwear, which connects undergarment obsession with recession and soshoku danshi (herbivores), and in part reads:

Self-professed gaijin with love/hate relationship with Japan, Fuzakeruna Konogaijinme, commented, “Japanese salarymen always turn inwards in recessions, peering into their navels in hopes no one notices they don’t do shit at work. Underwear that makes your balls feel good always sells.”

(Image from www.pants-ya.com. Almost NSFW).

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Medical play!

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Have I mentioned how much I ADORE being pampered?

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This weekend was amazing and has Me exceptionally pumped for My mini-cation in a few weeks!

I treated Myself to a pedicure Friday, but Saturday is when the fun REALLY kicked in.

The Privileged One picked Me up after getting his car detailed to chauffeur Me around all day. The day was at My beck and whim. Met with a photographer about a potential shoot to be scheduled and liked him a bunch. Will be scheduling something with him soon and hope to have new shots by the end of the year if scheduling allows.

Then off to get My nails done. It's been a while since I have had acrylics of any sort and he went way out there and treated Me to sculptured nails. LOVE IT.

That was followed by an ample amount of shopping, dinner and off to see A Christmas Carol. Really like this version of it. I am still partial to the 1984 George C. Scott variety, but Disney did a really good job on this year’s take. I’ve never been much for enjoying Jim Carrey (I generally like his dramatic stuff, but not the comedic…go figure!) but I really have to hand it to the man, he DOES have the expressiveness to make this live action turned animation system work wonders.

(Side Note:Though, seriously, the lines for Twatlight bug Me. I have always been fascinated by the vampire mystic, the lore, the sheer fact that EVERY culture has some take or variety of bloodsucker in their mythology. The ONLY good thing I will ever give Twatlight credit on is the fact that it’s getting pre-pubescent girls to READ. Vampires DO NOT fucking Tinkerbell! /rant)

The remainder of the night was, quite literally, spent in bed and My body today is reminding Me just how much. Joy. Rapture. Divine. As always. No, you don’t get details. This is a free blog after all.

TPO really went out of his way to cater to My every whim and desire. THAT is how I should be treated, always.

Tonight I am taking it easy, watching the American Music Awards and keep the phone open for a bit to hopefully ignore and torment some more poor pathetic losers.

Speaking of which –

My phone is giving Me a SERIOUS headache as of late. The past few days it has decided, of it’s own technological mind and accord, to arbitrarily turn itself off. This of course, is cumbersome as if I miss a call on TalkSugar, my rating will decrease and I want to INCREASE My rating.

Besides the fact that I can’t record a listing more then 5 minutes long AND the added annoyance that if I am in ignore mode on a call, I have to instruct the idiot on the other end to make noise repeatedly so that My phone doesn’t think the call has been disconnected and turns the call off itself. I need to have two lines really, and not only need a more reliable provider, but a better equipped phone(s) for what I am trying to accomplish. I want to be able to text My slavelings and randomly check in on them or leave them degrading voice mails when My mood strikes.

How can you rectify this travesty slaveling?

Simple…

I want this:

and this:

you can help get them for Me by either:

1.) going to TalkSugar and making a call -OR- buying one of My items. )There are four photo sets available for purchase, as well as a two-part story that I wrote and narrated into an audio file.

2.) you can email Me for instructions as to how to send Me money.

Simple enough! And the holidays are fast approaching….who better to give to then Me? ‘Tis the season after all and Black Friday is fast approaching.

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Quotes from Jenna Jameson on Oprah

Quote:

“If you, Jenna Jameson, aren’t a professional with oral sex, then who is?” – Oprah

“I wanted to be the number one porn star in the world. And I wanted to do it with dignity.” – Jenna Jameson

“I changed the industry for up and coming starlets.”  – Jenna Jameson

“We sell the movies. Women need to know they are an asset and they are the ones who should be making the money.” – Jenna Jameson

“Nobody wants to work with somebody who isn’t able to ‘do their job’” (context: get it up) – Jenna Jameson

“In the beginning it was new, it was fresh. I was young. I was crazy. Then, I ended up not really liking it, not having that connection… feeling kind of weird about it.” -Jenna Jameson

“I wanted it to be big…and massive.” – Jameson on her kitchen

“The BIG moment.” (erection) – Oprah

“When I very first started the adult films, the most important thing was having a boob job.” – Jameson

“You’d be really surprised how open women are with me. ‘The very first [thing] out of their mouths is, ‘You taught me how to give oral sex, and my husband thanks you.’” – Jameson

“It is a nonstop monstraziation  of your body.” – Jameson on mainting your looks as a porn star

“I never live my life with any kind of regret, but there are a few nights I lay my head down and I wonder if I made the right decisions.” – Jameson

“I know how incredibly capable I am.” – Jameson

“I knew I had a lot of options … but I knew that I was going to make a lot of money.” – Jameson

“That’s a big misconception about me in the industry. They think, ‘Oh, she’s had thousands of partners. She’s a slut. She’s a whore’. But in actuality, I had sex with my husband most of the time, and I think that that’s why my movies sell so well. You can see love.” -Jenna Jameson

“I loved the movie The Secretary.” – Jameson

Source:

Small Screen Scoop.com

A little novella I received... And my response [2]

Sometimes, it’s not that you don’t have the motivation to improve yourself, on your own, it’s that, if your in an intense relationship, the issues of yourself, and your partner, become intertwined, eventually making your situation worse, sometimes the ideal is being on your own, for a little while, or separating in a relationship which isn’t going to give you what you want in the long term.

I highly doubt I would be in his life if I didn’t think I was going to get what I want/need long term. Neither of us have the motivation or the patience to put in effort together / to us when we know it won’t get us what we want. We’re selfish like that

He has to build you up, such that… you can be your best, without him, not so that you are at your worst without him, let alone with him. I think it’s important to realise that, full time ‘Lifestylers’ get lost in their worlds as a way to hide their real issues.

This really made me smile because that’s exactly as I see him. I tell him I’m scared about what will happen if something does happen to “us” but, on the flip side, he builds me up in such a way that I feel better, more confident, more capable, than anything or anyone I considered myself to be before we started this. And, he doesn’t let me hide my ‘real issues’ – if anything, being the way we are gives me much less chance of hiding any issues I have.

It is important to have balance, everything in balance, yourself, your friends, your partners, your studying, your career, your hobbies, and so forth…. all in balance, yes sometimes different parts of our lives impose on the other aspects, however overall, when we have balance, we have a healthy life.

Agreed.

He may have helped you to gain confidence and change yourself in many positive ways, but sometimes, if things don’t change, it can make matters much worst, sometimes the issue is that of just a normal relationship, that one party will be more healthier… more happier… and growth more if they move on from their current partner.

Ah-huh…

So that may be something you wish to consider, especially if your relationship, as well as you, as an individual have been static… unchanging in what matters for some time. It’s not that you need him, and can’t do things without him, it’s that sometimes…. when someone changes us, moulds us so drastically, we get stuck in those early phases because we compare ourselves to that person and a lot of the time we think that we can’t hold a candle to them, and get lost in our own insecurities.

I don’t really have a response to that? I like the balance we have in terms of … Comparison and matching up. It makes me smile.

But when we move on… we get back onto the path of changing who we are, as no single person can change us, he may have started to change you, but he will not finish it.

Really?

You have to figure out, what you want to do, with your life. As I can see my previous relationship in this, my Ex is…not living up to my standards, but… she is changing, and importantly she is happy. She has stop being idle, which show she was for years.

I always think it’s strange when guys mention their exes in their first contact with me lol I figure things out on my own, I take advice from a multitude of people, but make that choice on my own.

I’m taking time out of my Life too, to well,, explore…me… and the World, if I can do it, so can you I was pondering a planned trip, but then I thought it was silly, why not just… make it spontaneous, 12-18-24 months of… going whoever I want to go, whenever I want to go. Well still excluding some Professional obligations now and then.

Good on you.

The only annoying thing is it is difficult to find someone to travel with, for that long. So the ideal solution is probably travelling now and then with peep I know, a few days here, and a few weeks there. And focus on other aspects.

Ah okay…

The world is changing, so I guess I wanted to visit some places, before I couldn’t anymore, but also hoped to recover some of my energy and passes, some how, no clue as to how.

Alright…

But I can say that it is important, for you to have your own dreams and be passionate about them, with a passion, you don’t give up, you keep on going even after you have failed, eventually succeeding, else everyone would be a ’success’ .

Pretty sure anyone who knows me would say that’s my style haha

Study, travel, Explore, Discover, Learn…. grow by yourself for a little while, gain confidence by yourself, and then you’ll be able to dictate terms to your partners, so that they understand your Submission is a Gift given Daily, not once, it can be tank away at any time.

Well this bit isn’t worth responding to because it’s completely contradictory to how I think of Sir and I.

In the mean time… don’t be afraid to stop submitting and live how you want, I would suggest a safe word implementation, once you say it, he stops being a Master Asshat and acts like your equal Partner, not superior Master. Smoke if you wish, go out with friends when you want, stay up late to watch movies…. or if your extra bored, come and pass the time with me… we can play! here

Ahh, you just crossed the line from rambly loser to douche. Shame for you.

No offence is taken to delays in responses, or short replies to my long messages, so take your time replying if you even want to. But I do hope you get what you want, you can say that a relationship which is working, is one in which both or all parties involved, are getting what they want from the other parties, beyond that their self issues or life issues, their partners must support them on.

Yep… That’s what we have.

Bye

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Where I Go in My Dreams (pt 2)

There’s another place which turns up fairly regularly in my dreams. It’s never the same twice, although my general impression of the place doesn’t change.

It’s a big rambling indoor market spread over two floors. It’s like a hybrid of the old Kensington Market and the Emporium in Cardiff’s Castle Arcade – neither of which still exist – but much bigger, and with unexpected sections heading off in all directions. I’m usually there on my own, wandering aimlessly around stalls selling trendy clothes aimed at youngsters, CDs, computer games, and  other paraphernalia aimed at the youth market. Occasionally there’s a tiny hair salon tucked away in a corner, or a cafe filled with dreadlocked arty types. More often than not there’s a little place selling fetish clothes and magazines. The market’s usually full of customers browsing, but I seem to be looking for someone in particular – and I can’t find that person anywhere.

In my dreams this establishment is part of the landscape of whatever town I happen to be visiting. A few weeks ago I dreamt I was in an old cathedral town in the west country, and the market was there. My subconscious city was very different from either Wells or Salisbury  (which I’ve visited only once) but I still found myself drawn to the market. A while ago I dreamt I was in a town in the Marches, and the market was at the bottom of a steep hill with busy traffic on both sides.

At least twice it’s been in London, but never in the same location. This London version of the market is usually completely devoted to the fetish scene, with dozens of stalls selling all manner of things. I usually buy a handful of magazines whenever I dream I’m in this place.

Last night, I dreamt I was in Bath – but it’s not Bath as it actually exists on the ground. Pulteney Bridge was in the right place, and the little park where youngsters play in the river on sunny days was there, but the city itself was completely different. Needless to say I found my way to the market, and spent a considerable time wandering around. I was wearing a long dress, which I’d previously changed into in a hotel room, but nobody gave me a second look as I went from stall to stall.  There was a black-haired girl wearing tight leathers and a dog collar sitting in a cafe, so I wondered whether to buy a drink and sit nearby. In the back of my mind it occurred to me that my mother would have collected my stuff from the hotel and put it in the boot of the car. I’d have to go and meet her wearing my dress, which I wasn’t looking forward to. I think I smiled at the girl, but she ignored me.

Media FAIL

Jezebel links to an offensive YouTube video on “How to Draw Asian Women”.

Yikes. How does something like this happen? Through eHow, that’s how.

Demand Media is the entity behind eHow. They came onto my radar after they sponsored a webinar on freelance writing that I participated in last week. It sounds like a pretty sweet deal. You apply to be a freelance writer, copyeditor, or filmmaker with them and they present you with a wealth of gigs, no negotiation necessary. You choose which ones you’d like to take, write your article or make your video, and they send you the fee. Sounds great, right?

A quick Google search of “Demand Studios scam” (so sue me, I’m a skeptic) turned up some interesting results. Namely, this article by Erik Sherman on the issues with Demand. I don’t know much about the business of freelance writing yet, but it doesn’t take much to start smelling something fishy. The comments on that post and the related post are telling. This is not something that anyone serious about establishing a freelance writing career would want to get involved in.

I also found this Wired article on Demand Media. It sheds some light on how this video might have came to be. At the risk of oversimplifying, the Demand model goes something like this: Demand decides which articles/videos to make based on an algorithm that includes search terms, keywords dictated by the ad market and existing articles/videos. An additional algorithm, a set of proofreaders and an editor refine the results for presentation to Demand’s pool of freelance writers. One of them bites, writes and submits the article, which is checked for plagiarism and copyedited. The final result is posted on a site such as eHow.com (one of several Demand-run sites). A similar process is used for videos.

Here’s what I think happened: “how to draw Asian women” was a popular enough search term to wind up as an algorithm result. However, this wasn’t drawing Asian women in the cartoon sense of the phrase, this was in the dating sense, as in “how to attract Asian women”. I’m not going to go into the the politics of Asian fetishes, but I suspect that dating Asian women is a much more popular search than simply depicting them on paper. Somewhere along the way, the proofreaders, editors, or filmmakers took “draw Asian women” in the literal sense, with the result we have here.

I could be wrong. Then again, this could be a good demonstration of what can go wrong when you crank out media based on algorithms, underpaid/inexperienced labor, and an utter lack of common sense.

Club Lick

So I’d walked past this building on the Forest Road end of Hoe Street many times. It’s all black with a big set of lips over the entrance. Well I did some digging and it turns out it’s a swingers club.

It has a number of reguler nights where ladies get in free, and there are gay nights too. There is also fetish nights; ‘Black Whip’ is fem dom focused, ‘Detention’ is school themed and seems to be more generally kinky.

Club Lick Site

SudoFUku, anyone?

I thought this was absolutely hilarious, albeit badly designed. All you sudoku-loving couples can now rejoice because someone has finally, finally recognized and filled this gap in the sex games’ market. The extremely creatively named SudoFUku looks and functions just like any other normal sudoku game, on the surface, with the only twist being that once completed the number tiles can be turned to reveal various sex positions that the couple must without fail enact together. Oh, but only if they can find two of the same tiles consecutively, like in a memory game. Is your boner deflated yet?

Personally I think this is a complete waste of money. Sudoku puzzles come free with the free papers everywhere you go, so if you’re really desperate for some pre-coital number crunching foreplay I think you’re better off grabbing a London Paper or something. As far as sex positions go, how unimaginative and bored must you be to let a game determine what you and your partner should do next? I’d rather blow my £9.95 on a new sweater, or good lube.